As a first-time cruiser, you never want to become a public nuisance.
After spending lots of time and money to book a relaxing and fun vacation, you’d hate to turn into someone inconsiderate onboard.
Being polite and following cruise ship etiquette will ensure that crew members and other guests won’t dread running into you.
So, what details should you know, and what rules are important to follow?
New cruisers have some common, but specific questions that we’ve seen pop up over the years.
There’s a lot to learn when it comes to getting on a cruise ship for the first time.
Some common courtesies may not come automatically or seem obvious to you, so we’ve answered all your questions right here.
From main dining room etiquette to who is allowed into the Crown Lounge, this is your guide to five common cruise ship etiquette questions.
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Should I tell the waitstaff if I won't be in the Main Dining Room ahead of time?
Royal Caribbean’s Main Dining Room is the spot for complimentary gourmet meals served in elegant dining rooms on several decks.
Because the venue is especially popular for its multiple-course dinners, many cruisers eat there every night.
However, itineraries can get busy on a cruise, and with all the onboard activities and onshore excursions available, it’s possible that you won’t be able to attend your traditional dinner time.
There are also plenty of other restaurants to try—such as the Windjammer buffet and specialty dining.
So, if you know ahead of time that you won’t make it to the Main Dining Room for dinner, should you let your waitstaff know?
I’ve been told by culinary staff that if you have a reservation at a specialty restaurant, the Main Dining Room waiters will see it in their system and already know that you won’t make it to dinner.
The same would apply if you’ve ordered room service instead.
But what if you’re going to the Windjammer, or eating onshore at a port restaurant?
If you know ahead of time, it is considered polite and customary to let your servers know. Also, if you are seated with other guests who are not part of your group, it is polite to let them know so they don’t hold off ordering their meal waiting for you to show up.
This ensures that they can adjust their plans for the following night and avoid any food waste.
Royal Caribbean tries to stay flexible with dining options of all varieties, so it’s polite to inform them of your plans as much as you can.
Do I need to pay gratuities for my infant?
Royal Caribbean adds gratuities to the final cost of the fare as a way to ensure crew members such as bartenders, waiters, cooks, and stateroom attendants are rewarded for their service.
Usually, gratuities are charged per person, for each guest onboard.
This includes children and even infants.
The cost of gratuity is applied to each individual guest, regardless of age or stateroom category.
Your child, no matter how young, is counted toward the number of people that the crew members are taking care of.
Read more: Mailbag: Why do I have to pay gratuities for my toddler?
While it makes sense that you don’t expect to pay the full price for smaller children, think about everything that crew members can do for your family.
Culinary service teams work to provide healthy food and high chairs and clean up any messes.
Your stateroom attendant will empty the trash with dirty diapers, and provide extra towels and sheets as needed.
And in the case of an emergency, crew members will also protect your children.
Even if you have a smaller human onboard, they still count as someone that the crew will be taking care of.
Read more: Should you prepay gratuities for a Royal Caribbean cruise?
Should I bring a Bluetooth speaker?
A waterfront vacation can be made even sweeter by the presence of your favorite songs, audiobooks, or even a loved one on a video call.
To hear these things better, should you bring a speaker onboard?
We don’t recommend it.
Most cruise lines ask that you keep Bluetooth speakers for use only in your personal stateroom.
By looking at any online forum, you’ll be able to tell that most cruisers do not appreciate the guests who bring their speakers and start blasting music for everyone else to hear.
Some guests may prefer silence at the beach.
Other areas, like the pool deck on Royal Caribbean ships, could already have talented performers playing live music live.
The cruise line could even confiscate your speaker if you’re found to be disturbing the other cruisers.
Remember that, while a cruise ship has space for plenty of fun and excitement, you’re still sharing it with other guests and should be considerate of their needs.
Instead, pack along a quality pair of headphones that allow you some privacy while still listening to your favorite noises.
Is it okay to bring my friends who aren't Diamond-tier into the Crown Lounge?
The Crown Lounge is a special, elegantly decorated lounge reserved for guests who are members of the Diamond, Diamond Plus, and Pinnacle Club tiers of the Crown and Anchor Society.
The lounge access comes with snacks, nightly happy hour, and a Concierge to assist with any special needs or requests during the sailing.
It’s an exciting and luxurious benefit, so can you bring along friends and family?
The answer is no, not unless they are also a Diamond, Diamond Plus, or Pinnacle level member.
Royal Caribbean’s website reads that this benefit is “exclusive” and “cannot be extended to include friends and family.”
Now, if you have a spouse or partner who is a member of your household and lives with you, you can request for them to be added to your Crown and Anchor account so they can receive the same status.
Royal Caribbean’s website says: “A Crown & Anchor Society member can be added into a relationship with other family members in the same household and receive equivalent tier status; however Cruise Points will remain according to actual cruises taken and calculated according to the number of nights sailed.”
Otherwise, they will not be able to enter the Crown Lounge.
We missed our traditional dining time, can I still go to the Main Dining Room that night?
The Main Dining Room offers two different dinner-time options.
You can either choose “My Time” Dining or traditional dining. My Time Dining will allow you to eat dinner whenever you choose.
But with traditional dining, you’ll receive a particular assigned time and table. Guests who select traditional dining are expected to show up at their assigned time.
Can you still show up late?
If you are more than 15 minutes late (and especially if you haven’t warned your waitstaff ahead of time), they may close the doors or they may have reassigned your table.
Especially if you’re traveling with a larger group, they may no longer have the table space reserved for you.
From this point, you still have the option to switch to My Time Dining. If you get into that line, they will attempt to seat you when a table is available, although there may be a wait.
You can always try, as many guests find that Royal Caribbean waitstaff are as flexible as possible, and will attempt to seat you.
However, if you’d like to give up and try something else after showing up late, there are always other venues such as the Windjammer.
