CocoCay or stay on the ship? Why you might skip the island (and why I didn’t)
In:Royal Caribbean built arguably the best cruise line private island experience in the industry, so why would you want to skip it and stay on the ship?

Skipping Perfect Day at CocoCay sounds like sacrilege, and I felt the same way on my most recent visit while sailing on the world's biggest cruise ship, Icon of the Seas.
Believe it or not, a lot of people stay on the ship instead of going to the island for a variety of different reasons. The impetus is less about if CocoCay is worth it or not, rather, it's about balancing needs on the ship and what sort of a day you'd like to have.
It's a surprisingly common dilemma for cruisers, especially those that have visited CocoCay more than once. While Royal Caribbean designed it to be as all encompassing as possible, there are a few good reasons to think twice about staying onboard.
I almost skipped CocoCay, but I’m glad I didn’t, and here’s why.
Should you stay on the ship at CocoCay?

If it seems crazy to skip your CocoCay day, it makes more sense if you consider the advantages of it.
The best reason to stay onboard is the same reason it makes sense to not disembark in any port: the ship is way less crowded.
One of the regrets I had from my Icon of the Seas cruise was I really didn't get to spend much time in the pools and waterslides. I booked so many things to do in the ports we visited, including CocoCay.
Because of how popular CocoCay is, your ship will feel like you have it to yourself if you decided to stay onboard. Most people don't start returning to the ship until after lunch, so the morning hours are the best time to take advantage of quiet pools and hot tubs.

Plus, there's no cost to use the waterpark on Icon of the Seas compared to the island's extra cost waterpark.
Another reason to stay onboard is if you've been to CocoCay before.
It might sound jaded, but some people like to go to a port of call and experience it, but the repeat value might not be there. Given how many cruise ships now visit CocoCay on almost every Caribbean itinerary, the chances you've been there before is quite high.

And did you know the spa offers some great deals if you stay onboard?
There are spa specials every day, but the biggest discounts are reserved for port days. There's so few customers willing to come to the spa on a port day, that they will often throw in more freebies or extra percentage off for services you book.
Another common reason I hear from cruisers why they stay on the ship is because they simply prefer shade and air conditioning to sun and sand.

I have to admit, I'm one of those people generally, because I hate being hot and sweaty.
When you visit CocoCay in the summer, it can be stifling outside between the temperatures and humidity.
Before you write off CocoCay, let's consider the top reasons you shouldn't skip CocoCay.

The hype is real, and Perfect Day lives up to the reason.
There are so many incredible things to do, and so much of it is included in your cruise fare. There are different beaches and pools, and also really good food.
If you have young kids, I think Splashaway Bay and Captain Jill's Galleon are the perfect spot to hang out and let them splash.
There's volleyball courts, different bars to visit, live music to enjoy, and hammocks to take a nap in.

Plus, we're talking about picturesque Bahamian beaches that are what a lot of people envision with their vacation. You don't need to spend extra to enjoy it.
It's also easy to forget getting off the ship doesn't mean you have to spend all day there.
It’s easy to go for just a couple hours and return to the ship, giving you a taste of what's offered without committing to an entire day.
What I actually did — and why

I ultimately spent my day at CocoCay, but I went with a promise to myself.
We booked a beach cabana for my family to enjoy, thanks to a Black Friday sale that significantly discounted the price. Not only that, it was located in the Coco Beach Club and the food there alone is worth going.
While it's true you don't have to spend extra to have a good time, the fantastic discount made it too good of a deal to pass up.

Plus, it meant we could enjoy a relaxing day without worrying about vying for a beach lounger elsewhere on the island.
It's also my personality to get a bit of "cabin fever" after a sea day. I really enjoy being off the ship for a bit.
But the deal I made with myself was I wasn't going to fall prey to the "I paid a lot for this vacation and we're gonna have a good time, or else" dad trope.

Sure, I got a good price, but that meant my "break even" value point would be lower. When we felt sufficiently relaxed, we'd go back without trying to justify the value to myself.
As it turned out, we spent more time at our cabana than I imagined, and that's because we had very comfortable weather with low humidity and it wasn't that hot out. Being we cruised over spring break, it meant the weather was much milder than I expected.
If I was going to have stayed onboard, I would have gone back in time and done that in Cozumel instead.
My ideal “half-day” strategy

If you're also teetering on what to do, here's what I'd recommend doing. In fact, I'll do exactly this on my next visit to CocoCay while visiting on the brand new Star of the Seas this summer.
Splitting your day and just going for the morning is a great compromise.
Getting up early and off the ship as close to when the gangway opens means you get to enjoy the cooler temperatures and a far less crowded start to the day.

Usually ships dock quite early, sometimes by 7:30am, so if you can be off the ship by 8am, you'll have your pick of where to go and sit. There will be hardly anyone around.
In fact, you could head to Oasis Lagoon and grab one of the coveted in-pool loungers that are available on a first-come basis.
No matter where you go, it's going to be much less crowded in and out of the water. If you plan to snorkel, this should be your plan because the water gets cloudier later once people start kicking up sand.

Enjoy your morning, and head back to the ship either before lunch, or right after it.
If you're back on the ship by 1pm, you could still take advantage of less crowds onboard at the pools and waterslides. And you'll already have your bathing suit on!
Or, book a spa appointment. Those port day specials apply in the afternoon too!
I think this is the perfect strategy for anyone that wants to try CocoCay without committing to the a day.
You do you

There isn't a right or wrong answer if you should stay on the ship at CocoCay. It just matters what's more important to you.
I think it's important to weigh your own preferences, and not be swayed by popular opinion.
Skipping CocoCay might seem strange to even consider, but you won't be alone. There will be other guests around and the many facilities will remain open, including bars, the pool, and Windjammer buffet.

But you should also not look at your CocoCay day in absolutes. Being flexible and going in for just the morning is a great third choice, because you're not locked into an all-day thing.
Even if you’re on the fence, just give it an hour. You might fall in love with it like I did.